Need help with abortion and genral advice,what can a man do?

well her taking on the pressure of her overbearing mother to make her feel insecure to go get an abortion. i would be in the same place as u i may b a female on that part but if i got an abortion it will kill me with all these baby commercials n products all over. there is no way to run away from it. giving up on your job is a little far i would of kept them and showed that it can happen and r ready and prepared if it happens again. if it does she shouldn't go to her mother cause for one thing its your guys child. no matter what she has no input on the matter cause it leads on to both of you. just hang in there and be strong build up your relationship and grow an incredible bond with her so that your input means something in that situation too. i know im young and u may think what im saying is crap but i will love to help as much as i can.